Monday, May 12, 2008
I read a post before, it was dubbed the monkey sphere, and its base logic was that it was normal human nature to be only able to take into constant concern of those immediately around us, namely family and close firends, those outside of the sphere do recieve concern, just not as constant.
Indirectly, what this blogger was trying to say was that we inevitably take our friends for granted, that they'll always be there when we look for them. The very first time i experienced this was in my first year of highschool where one of my friends suffered from leukemia, and he left us that same week. The feeling was ethereal. That was the very first time i took for granted that my buddy would be there when i turned to face where he sat.
The next time i took a buddy for granted was during highschool. It fel as if Daniel, Flo, Bev and Kevin would always be there when i turn to my right or when i turn to the back. I'd always think, "Ah, i'll see them tomorrow." everytime Danny asked for a group of us out to the movies.
Well, i spend a mass majority of my time wishing it was still to be now, just that the most likely way that'll happen is when i get back to KK for a vacation. Hell, we even tend to assume that our old friends on MSN will always nudge us first.
WELL!!!
Just last week our friend Cho left Malaysia to return to Korea, it was sudden, we found out only the day before his date of departure.
He loked solemn when we had the last drinks with him in SS2, but he was still making jokes and all, same old Cho. He was always that guy that made a comment that made us all laugh. He was cool in his own way.
Well, he's already been gone for almost a week, and he'll be doing NS in Korea starting this year end, and we wont see him for another 2 1/2 years. So Cho, here are some pictures, and may your rifle arm be strong!
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